Archive for June, 2009

Four Weeks Old

Monday, June 15th, 2009

sarah2Mads and I went to the doctor’s this morning for his one month check up. He’s very good in the car, and Mom’s biceps are getting awesome from carrying Mads, his car seat, and his bag of baby stuff down 3 flights of stairs every time we leave the apartment.

I was curious to know how much Maddox would weigh – he’s a good eater, and I’ve been noticing that he keeps outgrowing his clothes. At his last weigh-in, he was 8 lbs 4 oz. Today, he came in at 10 lbs 14 oz and 21″ tall (a gain of 1″ in height). I was so proud of him, it was worth all the hour-long feedings and nighttime chow downs.

wesAfter his appointment, I fed Mads at the doctor’s office (second time he’s eaten out of the apartment). Our pediatrician confirmed that Mads can go into populated enclosed spaces (offices, stores, etc.), so I called my friend Sarah at work to screen for sick people in the office. Yes, paranoid, I know, but it never hurts to be safe.

After confirming everyone was relatively healthy, I brought Maddox into the office where he was held by about 10 different people, and passed around three or four times each – we were there for 4 hours. He ate again at the office, and I am still not over how fantastic it is to be able to take him out for more than 2 hours at a time.

cynthia1He was so good – he likes to be held, and only cried once, when Mom was a little late to feed him. It was also really nice to be able to talk with one of my coworkers who has recently had a baby (not the one pictured to the left, I didn’t get a photo of her). We compared notes, and are both just really happy to have new little guys (in her case, a little girl) in our lives.

Maddox is really chill with other people, so he napped most of the afternoon, and it was great to spend some time catching up with my coworkers. Also, a ridiculous amount of people at my office really, really like babies.

When we got home, I noticed how Mads is actually focusing on things with his eyes. Not just people, but on toys and shapes and the jingly bell things dangling from his car seat handle. He is growing up so fast!

On another note, since he’s 4 weeks old now, this week, we’re going to tackle pumping. Wish us luck!

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Also, thanks to Dave for the pictures!

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PS. If anyone pictured in this post would prefer your picture with Maddox to be kept private, please email me at leanne@guidetoworlddomination.com and I will remove your photo.

Separation Anxiety

Saturday, June 13th, 2009

It took two weeks, but I’ve just about adjusted to spending the day away from Maddox. The mornings where he’s awake and alert always make it tougher to say goodbye, that’s for sure, but often once I get to work things get so busy that it’s suddenly 4:30 and I get to drive home and see him.

We’ve taken to calling Maddox our “monkey”, because of the uncanny resemblance he has to them when it comes to climbing. Put him against your chest and chances are he’ll start doing everything he can to climb up you.

So I paid special attention this morning when I was listening to a random mix of all my iPod songs in the car, and a song called Proudest Monkey came on, by the Dave Matthews Band. I hadn’t hear this song before (no big surprise there though – I haven’t actually heard probably about 30% of my music), but it had a catchy tune and I’ve been especially attuned to anything monkey related, having a monkey of my own now.

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The first verse gave me a big smile:

Swing in this tree
Oh I am bounce around so well
Branch to branch,
limb to limb you see
All in a day’s dream
I’m stuck
Like the other monkeys here
I am a humble monkey

But the next gave me my first sneak preview of what it will be like to watch my son grow up, leave home, and begin his own life

But then came the day
I climbed out of these safe limbs
Ventured away
Walking tall, head high up and singing
I went to the city
Car horns, corners and the gritty
Now I am the proudest monkey you’ve ever seen

I’m getting worried about this … and he’s only four weeks old! It made me want to appreciate every moment we have with him now, when we can pick him up and hold him and hug him and he can’t do anything about it!

On an unrelated note, since it was so nice today we drove out to Bradley Palmer State Forest (the one nice thing about being so far removed from commercial districts is that we sure do have a lot of parks around here) and took a short hike. I just picked the closest trail and said “Let’s go explore!”, so of course we ended up at a gravel pit. But the trail itself was quite nice, and Mads sure does enjoy being strapped into his Baby Bjorn. We also had our first in-car changing … though I use the term “we” loosely, since Leanne did all the work.

Sleepy Bjorn

(Looking at) The Great Outdoors

Friday, June 12th, 2009

Maddox has a new favorite past time. It involves staring out the window and flailing around in enthusiasm.

I’m not sure how well he can see, but he definitely focuses on the light, and he reacts when birds fly by – our apartment complex has a ridiculous number of birds on the roof.

I support this new hobby, because last night he decided that, in addition to his usual feeding times, being up for 2 hours straight would be very fun. (Mom & Dad are kind of tired and are glad it’s Friday.) So, this morning I’m keeping an eye on him while he entertains himself.

Tomorrow, I’m going to move his crib over in front of the windows in the nursery (and nail up the cord to the blinds for safety) with hopes that he’ll be amused in his crib, too. Wish us luck on that one. =P

On another note, Mads and I had our first driving adventure when we went to go visit Dad at work yesterday. It was so great to be out of the apartment. I ended up feeding Mads there (thank you for the use of your conference room, Jon’s work!) and by feeding him while out, it extended the time we could stay out from 2 hours to 4. Imagine confining all of your activities to under 2 hours and you’ll realize how great that is.

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The drive was a little nerve-wracking, since you can’t see how he’s doing because he’s in a rear-facing car seat. Luckily, Jon’s co-worker Sue told us about car seat mirrors to put on the back seat, so we’ll get one of those this weekend and it will be a little easier to take Mads places in the car. That is, provided I am awake enough to drive anywhere. =)

An Update

Wednesday, June 10th, 2009

sleep

Oh man, I miss sleep.

Here we are, about 10 minutes before baby explosion (meaning FEED ME NOW, MOM):

See some pictures with eyes open on flickr.

What We Did Today

Thursday, June 4th, 2009

Exciting news – Dad has joined the blog =)

Today has been pretty great. Mads and I slept until 8, instead of getting up at 7. He spent the morning in the sling, so I had the chance to eat a bowl of cereal and answer some emails. Then Kate came over, and we took a short walk, which Maddox seemed to like. The motion must have been soothing, because he slept the whole time we were on the move.

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Contrary to yesterday’s behavior, Maddox has been sleeping for 20 minute stretches in his Pack n Play. Possibly, all that activity helped Mads sleep more soundly. We still spent a lot of time cuddling, but having a break made it easier on my arm muscles, which are soon going to be formidable.

Around lunch time, Dave, a friend from work, Skyped in and Mads and I got a chance to say hi to the people at work. Then, we tried having a quick Skype call with Dad, but were interrupted by hunger after about 3 minutes.

This afternoon, we spent some time on the balcony in a rocking chair. I think Mads likes the change in how the air feels, because he calms right down when we go outside. It could also be the light – when he’s active, he likes to stare out the window.

Now, with about an hour and a half until Dad gets home, it’s just about hungry time again and then we’ll try for another cuddle on the couch. Although I’m a bit tired, it’s been great to have a more active day, and I’m excited to try winding down tonight by giving Maddox a bath before bed – one of the baby books I’ve been reading suggests starting this early, so it’s part of the baby’s routine as he gets older. We may not make it to a bath – you never know how the day is going to end up – but it’s fun to anticipate regardless.